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Need advice- how do I tell this really sweet guy that I can’t do this, and it physically pains me to text him back
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Anonymous 1d

The most important thing is to be honest with him. Acknowledge that he’s a sweet guy and provide the specific reason why it’s not working out. It’s tough to do, but remember there’s another human being on the other end that is vulnerable like all of us.

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Anonymous 1d

I’m in the same boat. I don’t know what to do either

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Anonymous 1d

Your fault for leading him on

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

If it helps think of it like a compliment sandwich Top bread slice: good qualities Meat & cheese: issues/ why it’s not working out Bottom Bread slice: restate the good qualities/ be optimistic for them and their future

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