Anonymous #1 1d

I did. Weren’t together for a while but then he said that he did get tested and was “waiting” for the results. By that time the symptoms were gone and he said it was something else. Throughout this i’ve gone to get tested and i’m fine. But now i’m concerned because of what he’s been searching

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Anonymous #1 1d

also was just in love and stupid

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Anonymous OP 1d

he was supposed to get tested when he had those bumps. he’s definitely hiding herpes from you. if he’s taking his medicine correctly there’s a very small chance he passed it on. he’s a monster and it makes me sick to my stomach he could do this to someone he “loves”. don’t let him play you anymore. you should break up with him. if you can’t do it , at least stop giving him access to your body he can’t be trusted with it

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Anonymous #1 1d

thank you queen. I guess it’s been hard because we’ve been together and through so much. It’s so hard to detach someone. and if he was honest with me from the jump i would have still loved him no differently and we could’ve worked something out to keep me safe. But he won’t admit that he has it and swears he doesn’t. He got tested but hasn’t showed me the paper proof and i feel like im losing my mind. He says that i must want him to have herpes

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Anonymous OP 1d

I feel like all the hints and clues are right in my face but when i ask he says he doesn’t have it

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Anonymous OP 1d

he’s playing with your health and it’s so scary. even if he brought you a paper with results i wouldn’t trust it. it’s 2026 most doctors office use online portals to log your STD results & the patient has access to these records! i know my doctors office uses MyChart. i got tested at the health department and they used an online portal too. him giving you paper results is sketchy to me. there is no way he had sores on his dick and didn’t get tested right then🙄

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Anonymous #1 1d

His reasoning was that he was nervous himself to see the results and so he didn’t

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Anonymous OP 1d

it sucks letting go of someone you have history with but he doesn’t value you or your body. life is too short to live like that you have to want better for yourself. you would never hide herpes from him. y’all aren’t equals he’s way below you

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Anonymous OP 1d

if he’s too nervous to get tested or show u his results then he’s not ready to be having sex. ignoring bumps or pretending they aren’t there doesn’t make a std disappear. u deserve someone who takes responsibility for his health. u also deserve someone who’s honest with u. this is supposed to be the person u face life’s challenges with and instead he’s hiding things, avoiding accountability and putting ur health at risk. it will only get worse…

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Anonymous #1 1d

your completely right. It just throws me off because he seems so sure and soo firm on the fact that he doesn’t have it. We’re on odds right now so maybe I should just cut it off for good until he can be honest. Not sure what I should do. Tried to force the truth out of him but he won’t budge. Part of me thinks maybe he doesn’t have anything, but the math just isn’t matching. From the bumps to the search history and not showing me the results. It all points towards a positive test

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Anonymous #1 1d

And then another bomb dropped, since we haven’t been talking we’ve been long distance. I still have access to his gmail so ofc I did some more snooping, and to my surprise I seen him looking up how hiv is transmitted from person to person and also looking up hiv medication. I feel relief because i haven’t been with him for some months and i’ve been tested for hiv and im negative. but my thing is why the fuck are you looking that up??? Like im soooo thrown off

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Anonymous OP 21h

girl just get tf out of this situation you're giving this petri dish far too many chances

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Anonymous #2 21h

I just think that he thinks once he tells me I’d have a horrible reaction or something

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Anonymous #3 21h

Don’t plan on it

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