Nope, I would never begrudge someone for being the victim of abuse

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I would never judge someone for not loving someone who abused them

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Abuse is a totally different story. Generally, women find men attractive who respect the women in their lives. You do not need to respect someone who is horrible to you.

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I think that's a clear exception

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nah, that kind of statement is for familial relationships that are mostly normal/non abusive. it’s kind of like a telltale sign that if a guy treats his mother with misogyny, then he will probably treat other women in his life similarly. but families are complex and there’s no one size fits all rule to them. i hope ur doing well !

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No, families can be difficult, sure sometimes they can be nice but they can also be wildly complicated and heavy. I don’t love my abusive father one bit, I wouldn’t expect someone else to love an abusive relative whatsoever.

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I actually hate s/o mothers. I think it’s jus trauma from a past relationship, but I ended up finding a guy with a dead mom 😐

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Yup

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