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cool_intellectual

 It’s hard finding a good man
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Anonymous 1d

You’re not a good man and it’s easy to find you so

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Anonymous 1d

Touch grass

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Anonymous 1d

Stop posting about shit like this. No matter what the results are you will probably find a way to make it prove your point

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Anonymous 23h

57% admitted to SA in a survey, and a lot of other guys probably sit around tolerating and enabling that behavior. So yes, it is hard to find good men.

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Anonymous 22h

Honestly it wasn’t that hard for me. I fell in with a good group. I encounter so many shitty men outside of my close circle though i understand why people struggle

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Anonymous 21h

There’s a difference between a good man and a good man my age who I share interests with who also likes me and is compatible

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Anonymous 17h

Your shit posting makes me laugh. Wtf did you do to piss everyone off??? 😂😂

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Anonymous 1d

are you okay

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Anonymous 1d

This will be u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m not trying to make any point. I’m just curious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

There’s too many men like me, right? Lol Must suck for u guys

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

At least most of them can become better people. You gave up doing that, right? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

So ur counting on men becoming “better”? Oh sweetie…

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

If men are mature enough they can become better people Clearly you’re not one of them

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

Don't patronize me. I believe everyone has the possibility to get better. Recently a friend of mine became 1 year sober after swearing off drinking after a DUI. They got that DUl wiped off their record and are doing much better now. People can always get better

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

I have plenty of friends to drink with lol. Just because a person doesn’t have a partner doesn’t mean they are alone. Also just because one is hard to find doesn’t mean they don’t exist

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Anonymous 1d

I’m engaged lol

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Anonymous 1d

My fiancée is a Swedish punk guy who loves dogs. Just because no one wants you doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 1d

Depends on the definition of ok

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 1d

He keeps spamming here and then deleting things when he gets overwhelmed with hate. He has called women bitches and stated they aren’t strong, then complains that women won’t date him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’ve had a couple of my posts taken down my mods or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

awww what a poor baby

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I said that just to get on ur nerves. Obv it worked

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 1d

I anonymously commented and said that men are superior to women

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

You’re just showing once again that you suck and not in a fun way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I don’t suck like a sorority girl 😏

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

Not you also stereotyping sorority girls smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

They always got some guy’s dick in their mouth 😋

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

You know that simply isn’t true. Stop being an asshole man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Aww. Poor baby

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

On the contrary. The way you act is immature. Even your retorts are childish. Stop with the playground insults and grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I was copying orangepopcorn lol

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 1d

Well then you did it improperly. They stated “awww what a poor baby” while you said “Aww. Poor baby”. These are not the same so it seems you can’t even be a good copy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

I’d rather touch ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Easy to find me on here. Not irl. Do u think yy is the same as real life?

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 23h

You’re not a good guy. So you’re easy to find. Good men are hard to find. You’ll be easy to find irl too you’re not that guy to be “hard to find”. You’re a racist, sensitive loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23h

I don’t talk to women irl

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 23h

Good 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 23h

😂 ok that was funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 23h

I don’t tolerate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 23h

Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 21h

I kinda want to create a sisterhood of women who want village style parenting, men optional. No pressure to make things work with a partner because our relationship is built on trust and safety, not sex. We can all date whoever we want, but a man’s involvement in the community must be voted upon before he can be allowed in. Kids allowed to see their fathers if they want to ofc, and free excuses not to if they don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

That sounds insane

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 21h

Boys need positive male role models. That should be accounted for

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 21h

No, what boys need is an absence of negative role models. My hope is that one of us will find a guy who is a truly good role model, and we can all vote to allow him to live with us. But if we can’t, the absence of bad role models will be an improvement.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20h

I shudder at the thought of this becoming a reality. If women would just marry good guys, this wouldn’t be necessary, but apparently men are too good at manipulating u. Boys need someone to show them how to be a man. There’s a reason why fathers and father figures are a thing.

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