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drsquatchphd

It’s hard finding a good man
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Anonymous 12w

You’re not a good man and it’s easy to find you so

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Anonymous 12w

Touch grass

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Anonymous 12w

Stop posting about shit like this. No matter what the results are you will probably find a way to make it prove your point

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Anonymous 12w

57% admitted to SA in a survey, and a lot of other guys probably sit around tolerating and enabling that behavior. So yes, it is hard to find good men.

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Anonymous 12w

Honestly it wasn’t that hard for me. I fell in with a good group. I encounter so many shitty men outside of my close circle though i understand why people struggle

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Anonymous 12w

There’s a difference between a good man and a good man my age who I share interests with who also likes me and is compatible

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Anonymous 12w

Your shit posting makes me laugh. Wtf did you do to piss everyone off??? 😂😂

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Anonymous 12w

are you okay

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Anonymous 12w

This will be u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I’m not trying to make any point. I’m just curious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

There’s too many men like me, right? Lol Must suck for u guys

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

At least most of them can become better people. You gave up doing that, right? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

So ur counting on men becoming “better”? Oh sweetie…

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

If men are mature enough they can become better people Clearly you’re not one of them

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

Don't patronize me. I believe everyone has the possibility to get better. Recently a friend of mine became 1 year sober after swearing off drinking after a DUI. They got that DUl wiped off their record and are doing much better now. People can always get better

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

I have plenty of friends to drink with lol. Just because a person doesn’t have a partner doesn’t mean they are alone. Also just because one is hard to find doesn’t mean they don’t exist

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Anonymous 12w

I’m engaged lol

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Anonymous 12w

My fiancée is a Swedish punk guy who loves dogs. Just because no one wants you doesn’t mean that’s the case for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 12w

Depends on the definition of ok

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 12w

He keeps spamming here and then deleting things when he gets overwhelmed with hate. He has called women bitches and stated they aren’t strong, then complains that women won’t date him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I’ve had a couple of my posts taken down my mods or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

awww what a poor baby

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I said that just to get on ur nerves. Obv it worked

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Anonymous replying to -> orangepopcornn 12w

I anonymously commented and said that men are superior to women

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

You’re just showing once again that you suck and not in a fun way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I don’t suck like a sorority girl 😏

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

Not you also stereotyping sorority girls smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

They always got some guy’s dick in their mouth 😋

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

You know that simply isn’t true. Stop being an asshole man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Aww. Poor baby

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

On the contrary. The way you act is immature. Even your retorts are childish. Stop with the playground insults and grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I was copying orangepopcorn lol

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

Well then you did it improperly. They stated “awww what a poor baby” while you said “Aww. Poor baby”. These are not the same so it seems you can’t even be a good copy lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

I’d rather touch ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Easy to find me on here. Not irl. Do u think yy is the same as real life?

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

You’re not a good guy. So you’re easy to find. Good men are hard to find. You’ll be easy to find irl too you’re not that guy to be “hard to find”. You’re a racist, sensitive loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

I don’t talk to women irl

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

Good 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

😂 ok that was funny

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

I don’t tolerate it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

I kinda want to create a sisterhood of women who want village style parenting, men optional. No pressure to make things work with a partner because our relationship is built on trust and safety, not sex. We can all date whoever we want, but a man’s involvement in the community must be voted upon before he can be allowed in. Kids allowed to see their fathers if they want to ofc, and free excuses not to if they don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

That sounds insane

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

Boys need positive male role models. That should be accounted for

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 12w

No, what boys need is an absence of negative role models. My hope is that one of us will find a guy who is a truly good role model, and we can all vote to allow him to live with us. But if we can’t, the absence of bad role models will be an improvement.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

I shudder at the thought of this becoming a reality. If women would just marry good guys, this wouldn’t be necessary, but apparently men are too good at manipulating u. Boys need someone to show them how to be a man. There’s a reason why fathers and father figures are a thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Well, I hope you shudder more. Because I will do whatever the fuck I want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Good luck getting ppl to agree to ur fantasy, that’s all I’ll say

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

I only need women to agree. And judging by the like-dislike ratio on our comments, it seems they do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I agree with ya honey. Out of spite too ✊🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

U have women and thiccpancake. Good job lol. Not sure who’s going to father your kids…him?

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Also in regard to what you said about bad men, even relatively good men are often inadequate. A man can be part of the 43-78% who never SAd anyone and still put in zero effort around the house, still drunk drive with the kids, still vote for Trump. Women on the other hand will help out with all these things without assaulting anyone. When you look at the data, traditional marriage is often a scam.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

You give more fatherless behavior than the rest of us dude

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Also if I take all the good men, there won’t be any left for my sisters. A scenario where women only go for good men is a scenario where the human population declines rapidly. If you want a stable population, you should be open to new ideas.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Lol getting a man to put sperm in your vagina is the easiest thing in the world. I’m not concerned about that one.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

Haha yesssssss I know there’s a lot of tired women ready to rebuild society from the ground up.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Jesus Christ you’re stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

They’re not gonna let u hit bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Why does he think having sex is the number thing in our lives???? Like what??? I literally have a date with my husband to spread our grandma’s ashes.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

It’s cause he’s a spineless welp

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

And it’s the fucktards that think I’m a “bro” I’d tell you a vagina joke. But you wouldn’t get it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

I have to get ready. Honestly, just block the pig. The world doesn’t need him and neither do you. Love you babes and see ya on flip side.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

I thought u were a man, mb

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Just bye.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Who hurt u #6

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Who let you feel so important and empowered???

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

For the record, I agree that marriage is a scam. I don’t want to get married either

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Who could possibly put up with you?????

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

Um. I thinking that’s a rhetorical question. But since I have positive relationships with ppl irl, I’d think I could find someone and make it work at some point in the future. Ur right that I am not marriage material rn

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

“I thinking” tells me what I need to know.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

You’re pushing 25 and say you have good relationships but have never spoken to women irl. Didn’t you dump a talking stage like last year bc you found her unattractive but decided to stay in hopes she’d still fuck you before you ended things?

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

That’s unironically ableist. I have a coordination disorder that affects my typing, among many other things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Not sure where ur getting that last part from. I’ve never had a talking stage. The girl who I’ve mentioned wanted to fuck me and have me over for the night. I didn’t want to have sex w/ her, so I stopped talking to her

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

I talk to women in my grad program. We get along fine

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

I have dyslexia hoe. NICE TRY, MY GUYYYYYY.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Who hurt me? Irrelevant. An open mind and an understanding of statistics are what got me here.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

I’d hope but you’re never getting a relationship with your attitude

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

Different than what I have. U don’t get to draw an equivalence between our experiences

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Awwwwwwwwww. Poor little tardo. Missing the point like usual. Imma just bully you at this point. You’ll never learn to stop.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Hey. Did I said he has dyslexia like I do? I never said that, right?

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Yeah, casual typing on a tiny phone screen is not a measure of intelligence. If anything it’s a measure of finger width.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

He’s never gonna learn that nobody gives a flying rats ass about anything he has to say. Fucking misogynistic freak.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

If I had to judge you based on this conversation, I’d simply say you’re afraid of the unknown, afraid of a sexless life, and less open-minded than me. Not an intelligence issue. You’re human. Your specific kind of human is not the kind I want to surround myself with, especially given the anti-gay implications of your belief that two women cannot raise boys without a father figure in the family, but that doesn’t mean you’re stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

Yeah. Honestly I’m just enjoying the fact that I can interact with people like this and not care what they think or question myself. It’s freeing.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

The need for examples to follow is something I take seriously. I know what it’s like to grow up with an inadequate knowledge of all the many female role models in many different areas of expertise. I asked a male professor how he balances work and children, and he said “I have a wife”. Clearly he’s not my role model in that regard. I think a solid backup plan is providing imaginary role models. Fictional stories, but also made up religions. I’m tinkering with a God+Goddess religion to that end.

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Anonymous replying to -> thiccpancake47 11w

Sounds like he just sucks at typing literally not even the same thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

I think fictional heroes are a way better route, it gets extremely iffy with religion

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11w

Yes 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

It all sounds very culty (not cunty 😭) to me. That’s my main issue w/ #5’s idea

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

What ur describing sounds like a cult 😭. Ur right that I’m afraid tho. I’m afraid of world where men don’t matter and I’m penalized as a result.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

Thiccpancake blocked me fyi

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

*a world

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

It would not be anything like Christianity. There would be full understanding that I made it up and full transparency as to why. No threats, no shaming, nothing at all like the religious trauma I see from so many ppl who grow up Evangelical Christian or Mormon. Exploring religion has helped me deconstruct patriarchy, Christianity, racism, and imperialism. It is a useful tool when used intentionally.

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Anonymous replying to -> drsquatchphd 11w

My goal is to raise men who grow to be full humans. Our current society crushes the humanity out of so many men. It is a pyramid where a few ultra wealthy men pay other men to bribe politicians and spread propaganda to boys, who then internalize the propaganda and over time lose the qualities that make them amazing people. Qualities such as imagination and empathy. Men are already treated like they don’t matter. Men are already used as cannon fodder. I want to fix that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Imo characters like Superman and Spider-Man are the best role models

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