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I have been single for all my life. I think it’s time to create an online dating profile. Is it worth it women?
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Anonymous 1d

Hey, this popped up in my feed and although I’m a guy I just had to answer this. Don’t. It will genuinely destroy your self confidence even more. What you need to realize is that dating is never, EVER a measure of your self worth. And believe it or not, it’s not all that common for relationships to happen, no matter what shows people put on. Give it time. Genuinely I was where you are, and online dating was a huge mistake. But honestly just living life is the best way to meet people.

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Anonymous 1d

It’s a hit or miss. But if you want to know from personal experience I’ve been on dates, meet ppl, but it never gets past like 2 months. Be warned

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Anonymous 1d

Are you a guy or a girl?

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Anonymous 1d

For the sake of your mental health no.

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Anonymous 1d

The whole point if their business is to keep you single so you stay on the app longer

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I am a Male, am I Cooked?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Everything I've heard about the dating app experience for men is pure misery, so I wouldn't recommend it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

I am tired of being single it’s hard out here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

How am I cooked?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

I really have no other choices 🥲🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

At least you guys started dating, much better than where I am at

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

If it was me meeting the right women than I think it’ll be worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 10h

I am just tired of being single, I want to fall in love because I know that will add more life into your life. I really like a woman before and they made my life so much better. I have been living life and it’s not going anywhere with my dating life unfortunately. People been telling me to give more time and it will come when you’re not expecting one. I believe your life will be more full and colorful If you have a partner that does life with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h
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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

What would you do, go and try it out or never give it a shot. You miss 100% of shot you don’t take.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Trust me. Not dating at all is better than 1 month, attracting feelings and being let down in some unfortunate way with a random reason why they can’t commit to you. Save yourself the pain

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

What are some of the reason that they would give? I am tired of being alone. As long it works out at the end everything will be worth it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

It’s not reasons you can fix I’ll tell you that much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Speaking from experience dating apps fucked up my mental health. More than one way to skin a cat

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9h

I am afraid that won’t stop me. I rather wanna to happen than not happening at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

How is it bad for mental health? Comparison?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Read what #6. Im not gonna waste my time on someone that won't stop and think

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8h

So you would rather be alone? I guess that’s on you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

Bold assumption that Im single.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12m

You are telling me not to try

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