Ask Women on Sidechat | question for ""basic,"" sociable women obviously it depends, but what do you honestly think of women you can tell are autistic? assume no hostility or anything

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question for ""basic,"" sociable women obviously it depends, but what do you honestly think of women you can tell are autistic? assume no hostility or anything

Anonymous 3w

🤔the only women that I know with autism seem to be disconnected in a way. I assume neurodivergent women grow up very differently from neurotypical women so we don’t experience it in the same way. And social cues are definitely unnoticed lol

Anonymous 3w

they’re less stressful to interact with but sometimes their quirks make me feel less unique as a person

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Anonymous 3w

the ones i know talk a LOT

Anonymous 3w

As a neurodivergent woman, (likely autistic) why are yall so unforgiving. I have lost so many friends by accidentally missing a social cue and violating some convention. And instead of communicating with me so I can do better I just immediately get ghosted, and I find out months later why, and it’s sooo frustrating bc its always totally something

Anonymous

#1 3w

Most people are more unique than they think they are. Maybe autistic people have more quirks, but maybe we just lack the social fluidity to hide them. Maybe you also have things you would do if you were unaware of social pressure

Anonymous

#5 3w

I could have easily fixed 😭. I can’t keep any female friends and I hate it. My guy friends are nice but it’s not the same.

Anonymous

#5 3w

My closest friend is also neurodivergent. One of my other close friends ghosted me for reasons I’ll probably never know though. Might be totally unrelated to my neurodivergence, there were plenty of kinda toxic people in our sphere who might have made some drama I didn’t know about.

Anonymous

#5 3w

☹️☹️☹️ that's hard. I think that most neurotypical women are raised as people pleasers so most women don't really know how to have productive confrontation. I automatically assume people are upset with me which is not productive at all lol. (Im 90% sure that I'm neurotypical but it does run in my family)