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Ask Women 19h
how do I confront my partner when I found out I tested positive for an STI? Both of us are health freaks, and I’m scared they’ll break off our relationship when I tell them. I feel so disgusting and anxious since I got the results. Any advice helps
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Anonymous 19h

you are not disgusting. these things happen. you just need to be as straight up as possible and tell them what’s going on. say hey i just got tested and i have x, you should go get tested as soon as possible. do you think it came from them or someone else ?

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Anonymous 19h

STIs are very common and it’s immature to call someone disgusting for having something as if they created it. U deserve to give ur self compassion regardless of how u contracted it.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 19h

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 18h

They’re my only partner at the moment, and I haven’t had any other partner in a while. But they had never had any intimacy aside from me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

when was the last time you got tested ? either you’ve had it for a while or they’re not being truthful about who they’ve been with.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 18h

A month before, but the doctors didn’t test for the STI I have. They claimed it was for another reason (it was not an STI) but recently I tested again.

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