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This guy I really liked 4 YEARS ago has been texting me on instagram dms (I haven’t replied) bc it’s like I gave u ur chance 4 years ago I’m not even interested now, should I respond just to see what he’s gonna say or keep leaving him on read 😭😭
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Anonymous 5w

Let him know you’re not interested.

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Anonymous 5w

Did he initiate the hangs? Like asked you out and then never turned into a relationship?

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Anonymous 5w

Damn I made a post similar yesterday 😩

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Anonymous 5w

Why hmu 2-3 years later hmu trynna start things. I already shown I was interested and you were being shitty. And why would I still be interested now?? After all this time fuck no

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t even talk to him

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Anonymous 5w

I'd just block him if he cant get the hint

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Anonymous 5w

The best part is you probably think he knows you gave him a chance

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I mean I’m pretty sure he did know, we were hanging out for months with no label and towards the end I got annoyed and said either we put a label on it or stop and he said he didn’t wanna date. Now he texts me every few months with pickup lines or asking to go on dates but like too late now

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

Ehh we were honestly like friends with benefits with a little more like we still went on dates sometimes it was just very confusing and lasted like a year so I finally said if we’re not gonna date I have to move on

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Exactlyyy like also what wouldve changed we never dated all those years ago why would we date now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ah well that makes more sense, he should’ve locked u down then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

What changed was they’re desperate and got nobody left to bother 😭 they assume we got nothing going on and take them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Exactly. I was out of his league to begin with too so it’s kind of offensive like

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