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Help me out, an ex texted me saying, “had a dream about you wanted to pop in and check on u” What the heck do I even respond I’m scared to talk to her any further 😵‍💫 she is really good at making me do what she wants 🥺 she left me too so idk
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Anonymous 4w

if you don't want to talk to her, just don't reply. not too complicated

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Anonymous 4w

why did she leave you? Like why does the relationship end?

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Anonymous 4w

Blow her mind and be like “holy shit, I had a dream about you last night too wtf?!”. Then, slide back into her life, fuck her hard man get some from her and then drop her ass since she left you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

^^ and block her so u don’t get upset whenever she randomly pops up

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Okay I appreciate the sarcasm because I struggle to really distinguish bad decisions from good ones. This being very blunt helps a ton thank you 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I don’t feel comfortable blocking her on the last thing she has to contact me. She already reached out through a texting app with a different number 😞 I’d rather ignore her than get random texts from her ya know?? Idk if I’m making sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

They suggested blocking her because it seems like hearing from her upsets you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Officially? Because she wanted to go on a break, and I told her that if she ever asks for a break I’ll breakup with her 😭 so she technically left cuz I didn’t give her any other options.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Oooh thank you for the clarification!! My apologies, but sorta?? My body goes into fight or flight idk why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah so that would be avoided if you blocked her lol look after your own emotional well being

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m trying. It’s hard. I think she constantly shows me she never cared about “me” by doing this but at the same time, I can’t bring myself to blame her for being a little selfish about messaging me despite me asking for her to refrain.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

No one's asking you to blame her, we're asking you to think of your own best interests

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Dude, slide back in and bust in her mouth! For real tho!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ive been there my heart rate would skyrocket and I would get anxiety poops if that’s tmi😭 I think it’s ur body even telling u this person is no good for u. But I understand it’s hard to cut a person out completely bc u have these what ifs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah I ended up having a conversation with her and she said some…. Less than ideal things 😣 safe to say that feeling I had was definitely my anxiety spiking to a degree I thought I long since moved on from. I feel so bad that I can’t even speak with her without freaking out a little 🙁

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

my one advice for you as a guy is she’s your ex for a reason, if she’s just gonna string you along for sex then it’s up to you if you want that but me personally i do have exes that do that to me and i tell them to fuck off every time like you’re either with me or not like it’s 100% or nothing because all it’s going to do is leave you empty inside

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