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Hot take but I hate it when men who r gay and use their queerness as an excuse/ a free pass. Like sorry u can def still be misogynistic even if ur gay
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Anonymous 13w

I find gay men tend to somehow be more misogynistic bc they think being queer means theyre involved in our experience as females especially if they present more femininely when that is literally just not the same thing

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Anonymous 13w

They think they are entitled now

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Anonymous 13w

so real

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Anonymous 13w

It’s just one less way to like and be interested in women, when you think about it, lol.

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Anonymous 13w

Yeah this is definitely a thing

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Anonymous 12w

how about we talk instead about how women who are straight use the fact that their a woman to constantly victimize themselves, and rather than make a change and leave their shit men they continue to get beat under the guise of “i can fix him 🥺”

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Anonymous 13w

Gheys are the worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

U get it 🥹🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Ive had far too many gay men call me a bitch 'affectionately' and get mad that it upsets me to not get it I fear 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

This exact situation. :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Call them a slur back, affectionately

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Oh so... no? Bitch is not a slur and you shouldnt be calling people slurs as petty revenge for disrespect anyways 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Bitch is quite literally a slur sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Tell them to watch what they say and nothing would be said back

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Queer man here, bitch is absolutely a slur and you should absolutely respond with other slurs

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13w

No it ain’t 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Can you define slur, please? Like paste in the definition of the word slur right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

Oh. That’s not it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

You’re literally mocking victims of domestic violence and saying they are victimizing themselves. You’re the problem here.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 12w

shut up pick me

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

Textbook victim blaming here

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

Yeaah so first of all no, second of all I can’t take u seriously using the wrong “they’re”, and thirdly this isn’t about being homophobic— simply, that women do have struggles unique to them historically and continue to and how some gay men feel as if they are no longer part of the problem (or don’t count) because they are queer identifying which is not the case— all men regardless of sexuality have a certain amount of privilege women simply will never have

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

yeah so i don’t care i’m not reading all that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 12w

Illiteracy is something that plagues many ppl across the country 🥹

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i’m plenty literate you’re just incapable of being interesting 🥹

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