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need some advice: i am 2 months into college and im starting to not feel comfortable with the vibe of my friend group, like i feel like i dont belong if that makes sense? i have another friend and her roommate who (continued ⬇️)
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Anonymous 3w

You’re allowed to spend time with other people? Don’t like ghost them or completely cut them out unnecessarily. If there’s workable issues then talk about it. If it’s more like y’all just are vibing right then just spend more time with people you click with. You can even do mixed events for a bit if that makes it easier.

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Anonymous 3w

You don’t need to stick with the first group you meet in college

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Anonymous 3w

i want to spend more time with and think would be a good fit for me. is there a way to move from one group to the next without hurting any feelings?

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Anonymous 3w

No need to feel guilty! People change over time, and their friendships do too :)

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Anonymous 3w

Protect your peace. If you aren’t feeling comfortable or you feel uneasy that should tell you something.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Hang out with both separately

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Or better yet start to distance yourself. Your peace is important and your time is valuable.

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