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Even if it’s oversaturated, isn’t having options handed to you just for existing better than having none, or having to grind for attention with no guarantee of results?
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Anonymous 13h

i’m too high to understand what this means

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Anonymous 11h

in dating, sure it’s nice to have options. but those options vary drastically and we know statistically dating can be dangerous for women so it’s complicated.

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Anonymous 10h

Personally no. On dating apps I was met with some truly horrific people. Every woman I know has an assault/ harassment story. I would rather be completely invisible (sort of how I am now) than back when I was getting honked at by old men.

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Anonymous 5h

Dating isn’t a video game

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

I’m completely sober and have read it a few times😔 i get it, then i dont

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

This is about dating. The point being made is that even though women have a saturated pool of options, and not all of those options are high quality, they still have options and don’t have to work as hard to get them. So the real question is: which is better, having to work hard for limited options(that still may not be great), or having plenty of options that aren’t always great?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

ohh😭 idk it seems like kinda a pointless question. but what’s good about having options if you don’t want any of them lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

What’s good about not having options or trying super hard to get them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

You don’t want any of them because u have options. If you had 2 opportunities a year you’d care more about them . Rn you’re suffering from analysis paralysis and inflation

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

also psych studies show that people prefer less choices

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 7h

that’s a weird thing to say tbh?? if i’m not romantically or physically attracted to them i don’t want to be with them period it doesn’t matter how many options i have. if i like someone i like someone if i dont i dont

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

Yeah but would you rather have no options or work hard for your options?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

i don’t get what ur saying 😭 work hard as in..??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

As in. If you didn’t put forth effort at all the option wouldnt be there

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