
I think there is a real issue with men getting in a relationship and still having their partners carry all of the housework and childcare and cooking and cleaning and still expecting them to contribute financially. So I kinda appreciate them like validating that equity in a relationship shouldn’t look like that. They do however, way more often than not, veer into like insane sexism territory and they make relationships into this weird transactional thing when it should be a partnership.
Gross. It’s 2026, we fought so hard for equality why don’t we want it in our relationships. Also if you see your man that way you’re likely not a great partner to him. I LOVE when my bf treats me, don’t get me wrong, i expect him to show me he cares. But bc I love him I also love treating him, making him happy. Also just my observation but it seems like women who think like this struggle more to actually find happy relationships bc they’re getting with more “masculine” men, and those men are
Bullshit. Just like 90% of online gurus, they are typically peddling bullshit to get fame and money. Although I will say, a few of them show signs of genuine care for others or passion for a cause. One gold digger who openly admitted to psychopathic tendencies had a surprisingly passionate side when it came to some real world issues. But it’s important to note that all women making money showing off their tradwife lifestyle are hypocrites, selling a life they don’t live.
More likely to be toxic. A lot of the best men have “feminine” energy bc when it comes down to it usually all that really means is they have emotions and basic hygiene. Everyone has a right to want what they want, and if that’s the dynamic you desire you have a right to chase it but Ultimately I think those influences are doing damage. It’s not as bad or dangerous as Red pill male influencers, but it definitely does its own kind of toxin .