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What's your opinion on these feminine dating coaches on TikTok that say shit like 'men have to provide" "women shouldn’t work" "marry a rich man" "feminine energy"
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Anonymous 3w

Only conservative women think like this (not all of them but a lot)

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Anonymous 3w

They prey on the desperate and succeed. If they told you good advice you wouldn't come back to listen to them anymore. Its like how Andrew Tate fucked with the heads of impressionable young men and made them into unlovable losers

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Anonymous 3w

feminine energy is the only one i agree with (to a degree) but the rest are just patriarchal and are setting us back

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Anonymous 3w

they, like their male "dating coach" counterparts, are peddling poison to their audience. it's all the same repackaged right-wing, anti-intellectual, antisocial nonsense. the world would be a better place if they all got jobs and friends

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Anonymous 3w

I think there is a real issue with men getting in a relationship and still having their partners carry all of the housework and childcare and cooking and cleaning and still expecting them to contribute financially. So I kinda appreciate them like validating that equity in a relationship shouldn’t look like that. They do however, way more often than not, veer into like insane sexism territory and they make relationships into this weird transactional thing when it should be a partnership.

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Anonymous 3w

I had to re-upload my post because there was a spelling error which ruined the point of the message

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Anonymous 3w

I dont like them

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Anonymous 3w

Gross. It’s 2026, we fought so hard for equality why don’t we want it in our relationships. Also if you see your man that way you’re likely not a great partner to him. I LOVE when my bf treats me, don’t get me wrong, i expect him to show me he cares. But bc I love him I also love treating him, making him happy. Also just my observation but it seems like women who think like this struggle more to actually find happy relationships bc they’re getting with more “masculine” men, and those men are

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Anonymous 3w

I don’t see them bc my algorithm probably knows me better than that

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Anonymous 3w

I hate them.

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Anonymous 2w

Bullshit. Just like 90% of online gurus, they are typically peddling bullshit to get fame and money. Although I will say, a few of them show signs of genuine care for others or passion for a cause. One gold digger who openly admitted to psychopathic tendencies had a surprisingly passionate side when it came to some real world issues. But it’s important to note that all women making money showing off their tradwife lifestyle are hypocrites, selling a life they don’t live.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

More likely to be toxic. A lot of the best men have “feminine” energy bc when it comes down to it usually all that really means is they have emotions and basic hygiene. Everyone has a right to want what they want, and if that’s the dynamic you desire you have a right to chase it but Ultimately I think those influences are doing damage. It’s not as bad or dangerous as Red pill male influencers, but it definitely does its own kind of toxin .

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I wish that was true but a shocking number of the people who prescribe to this also, at least pretend, to be leftist

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

What exactly is feminine energy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

to me, it’s being comfortable in my femininity and expressing myself in the most feminine way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

So how would a man have feminine energy and why would it be bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

What do you define as “feminine”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

How can you be leftist and say “women shouldn’t work”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

somebody (either you, them, or both) are misusing the word leftist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Basically they believe in leftist values like pro lgbtq, abortion, etc. and they believe women should work and be self sufficient but also that men should pay for everything in the actual relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Or that women shouldn’t work but not bc it’s their duty to be wives but bc they are better than men and deserve to be spoiled. Are they actually leftist beliefs? No, but would those women probably call themselves liberals? Yeah I’ve met a few who do

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Using choice feminism under internalized misogyny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

not to mention the advice is necessarily bad. like somebody else said, their audience wouldn't come back if the advice worked, so they (knowingly or unknowingly) sabotage their audience

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

men can have feminine energy, that’s really have nothing to do with me. i’m just talking about me personally.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

agreed, i enjoy watching stuff about tapping into ur feminine side, i do not enjoy anything that minimizes me as a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 2w

Also, “women shouldn’t work” is a bullshit fantasy for most of us in today’s economy.

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