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My gf found out that she was my second choice and she’s mad at me and idk how to fix this. It doesn’t mean I don’t love her or anything like that.
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Anonymous 21h

I’m sorry, bro. She will never see it like that. You might be kind of fucking bone here.

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Anonymous 13h

there’s nothing you can do tbh unless she can see past it but it’s understandable if she can’t that can really hurt esp if she prioritized you more even if you didn’t mean it like that

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Anonymous 21h

How did she find out?

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Anonymous 20h

Why would you ever tell anyone this irl

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Anonymous 16h

Unfortunately there’s no fixing that she’ll have to just tell you if she can get past it or not

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Anonymous 21h

So you were cheating?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

How the hell is he cheating? He just said the girl isn’t his first pick but I’m still guessing she was on the top three or something. And he probably gently cares still to get to know her. She is gone blow this out proportion and ruined the entire relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

That’s why I asked and was trying not to be accusatory

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

But you asked it in an accusatory way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Okay. Question, not trying to be accusatory btw: Are you a guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

So why are you answering on Ask Women lol?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

I just told him sorry bro. And then I reacted to your comment never gave him advice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

You literally gave your opinion lol. “She will never see it like that. You might be kind of fucking bone here.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

An opinion, not advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Okay. It doesn’t specify you need to give advice. This group does specify that they are asking women. I love that you’re trying to support this person but you decided to comment on my comment and it feels kinda weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

The only one who made it weird was you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Okay

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