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I said good morning to this girl passing by at work but she just ignored me. Should I just cut my losses and move on? Maybe she didn’t hear me or think I was talking to her? I don’t know her but I thought she was cute
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Anonymous 1w

Honestly passing comments make me flustered, not enough time for my brain to formulate a response

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Anonymous 1w

Do you want a petty way to get her attention or a healthy way? I have both in the chamber 😅 -F30

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Anonymous 1w

Do you work with her? Or was this just like on the sidewalk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Both lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Different departments we pass by each other sometimes she goes outside to smoke

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Then I’m willing to bet she just didn’t hear you, didn’t know you were talking to her, or was in the middle of doing something. I would just introduce yourself and say, “hey, we pass by each other a lot and I wanted to introduce myself, I’m xyz, I work in abc department!” If you’ve never spoken or been formally introduced, she probably assumed you were just making a pleasantry or talking to someone else

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Maybe so I’ll try one more time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Okay, okay. Petty version is to always talk to the person next to her and give her side “Hey, what’s up” but most of your energy going towards the person next to her. Heathy version is, when you pass by her say her name with a good morning and give a compliment about her hair, or her shirt. Tell her that a color compliments her well. From there just slowly build it up every time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Don’t know her name she works in a different department but I’ll try it one more time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

If you’re confident and bold, ask her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I get it I’m the same way

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