Ask Women on Sidechat | Hypothetical: You’re at a party and a guy comes up to you, says you’re cute/cool, and asks you for your phone number. He doesn’t have social media so you can’t add him on Snapchat, and he otherwise looks slightly above mid. WDYD?

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Hypothetical: You’re at a party and a guy comes up to you, says you’re cute/cool, and asks you for your phone number. He doesn’t have social media so you can’t add him on Snapchat, and he otherwise looks slightly above mid. WDYD?

Anonymous 20h

All he says is | look cute/cool? No conversation? Then I politely decline. I want to get to know a person before I give my number out

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Anonymous 20h

i’d prolly continue the conversation to see if he’d be someone i wanted to see again, before giving him my number.

Anonymous 20h

we otherwise didn't interact? I'd decline

Anonymous 9h

I’d probably start a convo and try and feel him out. I wouldn’t give him my number right off the bat bc if he’s weird then I don’t want him feeling like I owe him more than that. Some people would consider giving him my number leading him on. But if he’s chill I’ll give him it later on in the night

Anonymous 20h

This was cut for length, but do you give him your number, and if yes do you keep in touch after? I was in this situation a bit ago, and wanted to see what y’all would do.

Anonymous

#1 20h

Ok, thank you!

Anonymous

#2 20h

Got it! Out of curiosity, would you have said yes if there had been small talk between you, but you still didn’t know much about him?

Anonymous

hellraiser 20h

O.O What topic would you continue with?

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Anonymous

OP 20h

i like to ask if someone’s in school or what they do for work. try to figure out what their life looks like

Anonymous

hellraiser 20h

Interesting, thank you for the response!!

Anonymous

OP 19h

maybe, if he seemed nice or interesting or something. but just one compliment does not get my number lol