beestboy on Sidechat | In the romantic context (assuming it’s different for you from the platonic/familial) what helps you feel appreciate d and cater for? Or validated ?

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beestboy

In the romantic context (assuming it’s different for you from the platonic/familial) what helps you feel appreciate d and cater for? Or validated ?

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Anonymous 1d

my ex would write me letters, buy me regular flowers and surprise me with little gifts, plan weekly date nights, cook for me, give me massages. all good things. u can just ask someone in what ways they feel most appreciated, everyone’s different

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Anonymous 1d

Lmaoooo downvoting everything I ever post in here is hilarious 😭😭

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beestboy 1d

This is how I know I’m nonbinary 💯

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hellraiser 1d

I normally do this I just wanted to see what people I’m not dating would be into cuz I keep dating the same person over and over 😭 I wonder how much overlap there is Did u keep the letters ?

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beestboy 1d

yes i keep everything that anyone’s ever given me lmao. i still have letters from my middle school girlfriend.

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hellraiser 1d

I also keep everything that people have given me! Just because we break your doesn’t mean that the memories are gone. Besides my ex who stalked me that’s a different story.

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hellraiser 1d

Real af. I don’t think anyone’s ever wrote me a letter so I don’t have any momentous like that but I keep gifts and birthday cards . Unless I hate them now😭

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strawberry_hair 1d

real asf. we some sentimental baddies

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beestboy 1d

Damn the even got you in ask men? What did you do over there? But anyway to answer your question, touch and quality time. If they care about what I care about, even if they don’t really get why it matters to me. Just understanding why I am as a person, bc know I have some odd qualities. Showing that they know me well