Ask Women on Sidechat | If you’re reaching out to a girl you haven’t talked to in a while, is it better to say “wanna grab drinks?” or “let’s grab drinks.”

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If you’re reaching out to a girl you haven’t talked to in a while, is it better to say “wanna grab drinks?” or “let’s grab drinks.”

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Anonymous 2w

I would prefer to be asked than told

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Anonymous 2w

did she ever answer

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Anonymous 2w

You could say “I think we should grab drinks” it’s not demanding or just asking

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Anonymous 2w

For context we were never dating, more like acquaintances but we’ve periodically stayed in touch since high school

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Anonymous

#1 2w

This. If I were told, I would never respond.

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Ok fair how about “hey [name] I’m in town for a few weeks :) wanna grab drinks and catch up?”

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I would like that a lot more

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Bet just sent it

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Anonymous

#2 2w

She was active 5 minutes ago and didn’t respond rip

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Anonymous

OP 2w

she's thinking about it

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Wishing you luck! I know I sometimes forget to respond because I’ll check my schedule for something and then just 🧍🏻‍♀️ for a hot minute.

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Left me on seen 10 minutes ago :(

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I wish I had an answer for you 😔

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Tbf the last time I messaged her was summer 2024 so it’s a bit out of the blue but I was optimistic

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Anonymous

OP 2w

If it doesn’t happen, you tried! More than I might have done in that boat.

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Anonymous

#4 2w

No :(

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I am sending you virtual hugs 🫂

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Anonymous

#2 2w

Thank you 🥹

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Anonymous

OP 2w

I gotchu! 🙇🏻‍♀️

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