Anonymous #3 3w

I believe rape is sexual assault, ie unwanted sexual contact. But not all sexual assault is rape. Ofc these have specific legal definitions but generally people define rape as a type of sexual assault. (Also just use the real terms not the tiktok terms)

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Anonymous #7 3w

Shhh, you have to use logic carefully here

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Anonymous #7 3w

Still coercion

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Anonymous #7 3w

Or be an adult and take no for an answer the first time.

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Anonymous #1 3w

I agree. Sex Ed growing up was not informative enough. I wonder how it is now.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Yeah so part of being an adult is also accepting a no the first time and not pushing it

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Anonymous #8 3w

Or be an adult and stick to your own desires

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Anonymous #9 3w

Part of being an adult is making decisions for yourself

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Anonymous #1 3w

They chose to change their answer nobody made them. If they were threatened that’s a different story. But if you change your answer because the person is begging that is your fault

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Anonymous #7 3w

Yes and if you make the decision to coerce someone into sex you deserve to be held accountable for raping them

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Anonymous #7 3w

Thank god you aren’t creating laws then

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Anonymous #7 3w

It’s easy for you to speak that way when you’re not the one actually in those circumstances. This problem wouldn’t even exist in the first place if people just knew how to take no for an answer immediately, but you’re right the person we should be blaming is the one that got coerced 🙄

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Anonymous #1 3w

Begging someone does something is not the same as coercion

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Anonymous #9 3w

Anyone can be guilt tripped you are not a victim if you give in to guilt tripping lmao

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Anonymous #7 3w

Using pressure to compel unwanted sexual activity is by definition coercion. But coercion can also be vis threats, manipulation, or intimidation

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Anonymous #7 3w

found one

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Anonymous #1 3w

Begging someone or asking over and over for something is not equivalent to coercion. If a little kid asks his parents for candy over and over again and the parent gives in and buys it you are telling me the 5yr old “coerced” his parents

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Anonymous OP 3w

“One” sure lmao

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Anonymous #7 3w

Comparing grown ass men to little kids begging for candy is quite telling. You aren’t a little kid, it’s your responsibility to get enthusiastic consent that wasn’t coerced. Argue with the law buddy

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Anonymous #1 3w

The definition remains the same in both scenarios if what they are saying is true. Begging isn’t the same as coercion end of story

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Anonymous #7 3w

Begging for consent until she says yes is coercion tho

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Anonymous #7 3w

Point blank period end of story I’m afraid

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Anonymous #1 3w

So you think kids coerce their parents for candy by asking over and over?

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Anonymous #7 3w

Do I think kids sexually coerce their parents for candy?

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Anonymous #7 3w

Sure kids coerce their parents for things they want, the difference is it’s a kid and that’s their parent. Sexual coercion is violating someone’s consent and is rape, i don’t know why you are comparing these

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Anonymous #1 3w

Read carefully I know it’s hard

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Anonymous #7 3w

Buddy even an adult coercing someone into giving them candy isn’t comparable to coercing someone into sex. One of those is legally considered rape and the other is just manipulation lmao🤦🏻‍♀️ can we get to the point where

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Anonymous #7 3w

Do you think coercing someone into having sex is akin to coercing someone into giving you candy?

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Anonymous #7 3w

as someone who has been raped repeatedly by different partners, it’s incredibly hard for me to say no bc my no’s were nvr respected and/or ended in violence. i always try to make partners aware of this and that if i say no to not ask me again bc i will start to shut down and just let things happen as a survival mechanism which isn’t fun for any party involved. i still have men who pressure me despite me communicating this.

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Anonymous #10 3w

i’m actively working on this ofc and thankfully i’m open enough about myself to attempt to communicate this with sexual partners but let it be a warning that u nvr know what a person has gone through and that making sure they feel safe and respected is so so important. always take the no the first time. my fiancé is thankfully very aware of my situation and so respectful of me and always has been. asking repeatedly puts a lot of pressure on the other person and is 100% not okay.

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Anonymous #1 3w

I’ll answer your question after you answer mines it’s a yes or no question.

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Anonymous #7 3w

I did, Read carefully I know it’s hard

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Anonymous #1 3w

So yes

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Anonymous #7 3w

Functionally illiterate

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Anonymous #1 3w

Oh so I’m wrong. You don’t think a kid begging for candy is coercing his parents

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Anonymous #7 3w

ur wrong because ur comparing apples to oranges my guy. “oh well both food, both fruit, both have seeds.” still not the same thing.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Brother can you read what I said. A child coercing his mom for candy is normal child behavior. RAPE is not normal behavior. Why can you not grasp such a simple concept???

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Anonymous #1 3w

Now you know why I asked again for a yes or no

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Anonymous #7 3w

Okay you’re a red flag AF. You’re a part of the problem. Unless you’ve been in the situation I think you should stfu. If you can take no as an answer the first time, you’re the problem. Men out here will physically hurt a woman for not complying with what they want. If you can’t understand that your opinion is wrong in this matter, I highly suggest you to go find some help to understand.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Oh my bad I gave you a sure instead of a yes or no my fault

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Anonymous #8 3w

If you can’t* take no as an answer

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