Anonymous #2 1d

She constantly talks abt her husband whenever we hangout and then when we switch convos she always goes back to talking abt him. They’ve been together for a while now and it was fine in the beginning but now it just feels repetitive and like she’s focusing too much attention on him when he doesn’t rlly give her that much attention since the beginning. He told her he wanted to get closer to me and then even compare her body to mine and told her he wanted her to get bigger like me.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Which thanks alot for calling me fat (I don’t like him at all)

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Anonymous #1 1d

It’s so draining like there’s more in life than centering your life around men and constantly talking about him.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I agree and it’s funny bc whenever we’re around guys (like acquaintances) she becomes all like flirty and shit so it’s interesting to see

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s weird of him to A. comment on your body and B. try to change how his wife looks, personally this would be crossing a boundary if i were the wife

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Anonymous #3 1d

I rlly don’t like how she never questioned it or how it didn’t make her upset but I brought it up again cuz I could tell it made her insecure cuz she kept saying she wanted to gain more weight and she brushed it off as “well he was concerned about me not eating enough so that’s what he meant, he wanted me to eat more”. Like girl why did he bring me into the conversation then? (He’s autistic but still)

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Anonymous OP 22h

Is your friend being abused? Because this is the dynamic that abusers try to maintain: the victim thinks about the abuser 24/7 while the abuser is free to be kind of a jerk if they like. Even if he doesn’t hit her, the comment about you might constitute emotional abuse.

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Anonymous OP 22h

My ex acted a bit autistic and also said and did some questionable things. Idk if he followed too many toxic examples as an autistic person or if he was genuinely manipulative, but either way, I deserve better than that behavior.

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Anonymous #5 22h

I’m not rlly sure how is he behind close doors but apparently to her since she talks abt him a lot he treats her well but idk someone who’s with you and love you wouldn’t say those things and idc that it’s been years since he said it he was still wrong for saying it and I hope my bsf soon realizes it

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