Ask Women on Sidechat | I am genuinely so turned off by dating. And it’s making me very resentful towards women. To the point where i feel myself becoming a different person, someone i don’t like. Does anyone have any advice?

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Ask Women 19h

I am genuinely so turned off by dating. And it’s making me very resentful towards women. To the point where i feel myself becoming a different person, someone i don’t like. Does anyone have any advice?

Anonymous 19h

Where is the resent coming from?

Anonymous 7h

well for one it’s important to note, once again, women are not a monolith. If you find that immaturity is rampant amongst the women you date, I think you need to find a new place to look for women? Or take this time to work on why the bad experience of one woman is affecting your relationship with all of them, even if it means not dating for a long time

Anonymous

#1 18h

For example this past girl I was seeing, everytime we were together she had pet names she was running her hands through my scalp holding my hand, grabbing me while we walked and made me take photo booth photos for her to save. She than just got really cold really abruptly and is now flaking on every plan and hasn’t texted all day. Actively being ghosted

Anonymous

OP 18h

and this is a similar situation i’ve had before

Anonymous

#2 2h

No woman are not monolithic, but my resentment is stemming from a place of eerie similarities. I would like to be able to improve myself and show up better for the next woman I date, especially if a girl is deciding not to see me again. But the woman who have decided as such always choose to ghost, instead of being honest. I have a friend who actually texts girls he’s gone out with to try and understand why they didn’t see him again. And the responses he gets to me look like they come out of AI