Ask Women on Sidechat | Have any of you guys ever had a crush on someone but not even think they’re attractive at all looks wise but that doesn’t stop you from thinking about being with them constantly and wanting that? Bc it’s a first for me rn and it’s throwing me off

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Have any of you guys ever had a crush on someone but not even think they’re attractive at all looks wise but that doesn’t stop you from thinking about being with them constantly and wanting that? Bc it’s a first for me rn and it’s throwing me off

Anonymous 6d

Yeah bc I vibed with them too much and grew attached to it

Anonymous 6d

Yeah but I’m also potentially demisexual

Anonymous 5d

I get you sometimes personality pulls me in and then i start finding them attractive

Anonymous 6d

I think you might just be bored

Anonymous

#1 6d

Maybe I am too. I get crushes on people after getting to know them and not really much from just seeing them. But I’ve never had a crush that I didn’t grow to also find attractive until now. Like this sounds so insanely cheesy i hate it but I’m just purely attracted to their soul but not in a platonic way at all

Anonymous

#3 6d

Looks attract but personality wins. Wish u the best whatever you decide to do with this

Anonymous

OP 6d

I’m the same way!!

Anonymous

OP 5d

Yeah that may mean the romantic attraction is stronger than the physical/sexual one. That’s how I am with my bf but it’s still an attraction all the same. I’m Demi too btw

Anonymous

#5 5d

The one thing that I’ve learned from this is that I can have a strong sexual attraction without even thinking they’re attractive tho 😭 like I’m still having those same sexual thoughts I’d have towards anyone else I’ve been into tbh.. but it kinda makes sense bc even with sex and stuff with now exes it’s always been so much more about the intimacy aspect of it then what they look like or anything in that moment idk