Ask Women on Sidechat | i feel uncomfortable with my bfs “friend” that likes him. they text and call sometimes. she’s back at his hometown but they did hang when he was home. he says he doesn’t like her but ik he used to bc they went on a date when they met. should I let it go?

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i feel uncomfortable with my bfs “friend” that likes him. they text and call sometimes. she’s back at his hometown but they did hang when he was home. he says he doesn’t like her but ik he used to bc they went on a date when they met. should I let it go?

Anonymous 2w

Ok so theres just too many alarm bells. 🚨Friends with someone that he liked 🚨She openly likes him (might be aware himself) 🚨Their relationship began with romantic intent This is what you should say: "I want to believe you when you say you don't like her now. I just feel uneasy about your friendship with her because not only did you have feelings for her in the past but she currently has feelings for you and you talk and hang out. I want to trust you so I want us to come to an understanding

Anonymous 2w

I personally would not. Guys having platonic girl friends is fine and all but I think it crosses a line when there was history there. I think you’d be right to express discomfort with this

Anonymous 2w

I’d ask to meet her sometime! As dumb as it sounds a lot of guys will reveal their true nature at that point. If she doesn’t fuck with you or he doesn’t fuck with the idea of y’all meeting then it’s likely a red flag

Anonymous 2w

Did they hangout alone or in a group

Anonymous

#2 2w

-of some clear boundaries when it comes to her to feel more comfortable and secure in this relationship"

Anonymous

#1 2w

Maybe but some will play the friendly girl best friend role and really they’re just waiting their turn

Anonymous

#4 2w

Alone

Anonymous

#3 2w

Totally, like being friends in a group of friends is fine but I think hanging out one on one is a little weird

Anonymous

#3 2w

Ya exactly, I wouldn’t care if it was a group of friends but no it’s a single girl that likes him and he used to like her and they hung out a weekend or two ago and played volleyball or something I think at a place they both used to work at and never told me bc he knew I would be upset. She also randomly unadds him when she is talking to a guy which is ALSO WEIRD. Literally all his friends are girls that he used to like, I feel crazy and like I’m losing my mind.