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Why do men think that women always dress for them? If I’m wearing something cute, it’s because I like it, not for anyone else.
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Anonymous 1w

Because some men were taught everything women do is about them. And they never learned better or bothered to apply their judgement. Also in lesser part bc some women do dress for them and they never learned women different from eachother and are not one single entity

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Anonymous 1w

Ik this is ask women but is this rhetorical ? Are you asking women what men think or do you want an actual answer ?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1w

I want an actual answer. I get that it can be rhetorical lol. I want to know other women’s opinions on the topic which is why I asked

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1w

I feel u, do u think that’s a real answer tho? Like if I asked a bunch of men why women do something I feel like that’d be an echo chamber. In terms of having a shared experience tho snd someone to talk to who gets it, I understand that pov

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1w

That’s completely fair. I was just curious because I had been talking about it with some of my guy friends and wanted the other side’s perspective. It was really interesting to hear what they had to say so I wanted to see if things were different for women’s perspectives

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

That’s real af !!

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 1w

Sorry if my original post was confusing. I just thought I would add my opinion on from what I experienced. I understand that some women don’t dress like that and that is fine too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

No your post is not confusing! I was confused behind the intent. It’s totally fair to want to talk to women about why they think men behave the way they do

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