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Is a s/o entertaining attention from outside people hitting on them a dealbreaker. I need to make sure I’m not being rash in ending this relationship
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Anonymous 5d

That’s a matter of personal opinion and what you think entertaining it means

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Anonymous 5d

Everyone’s opinions is gonna be different some think that would be a dealbreaker and others don’t. You have to decide if it’s a dealbreaker for you

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Anonymous 5d

For me I guess it depends on the degree. If someone compliments you and you thank them that’s one thing but if you’re continuously flirting with someone that’s an absolute dealbreaker

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

She got pulled away by friends she was all over this person and extremely drunk.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

So where is the s/o entertaining attention part in all of that? Are you talking about the drunk girl? The person she was hitting on? Or something else?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

My gf was the extremely drunk one accepting drinks from guys hitting on her and got pulled away by her friends from a group of guys bc she was so close to making out? Idk her words - and exchanged social media with them. We’ve been dating for a yr and are LD so I wasn’t there and she was not upfront about any of this w me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

This is so obviously a red flag😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Yeah that’s definitely cause to tell her you’re ending things cause that’s a hell of a lot more than “entertaining attention”

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