Anonymous #5 5w

some men cannot conceive that women don't want to just date anyone; quality matters

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Anonymous #6 5w

That has nothing to do with what I’ve said

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Anonymous #5 5w

Fuck you mean tutorial mode 💀

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Anonymous #5 5w

it does if you think a little... women know there are men out there who'd have sex with or date them, but that doesn't guarantee the men are sentient or kind

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Anonymous #6 5w

Any women can get hundreds of likes on a dating app in a week. You cannot tell me out of all of those people there aren’t a handful of them who are good enough to try a first date

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Anonymous #5 5w

Dating apps are designed to make money off your loneliness, not help you leave the app. And they are full of bad men who want a low effort way to get a date

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Anonymous #7 5w

So you’re telling me none of those hundreds of men who would like a woman’s profile are worth going on a first date with

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Anonymous #5 5w

No. Just that you have to sift through a lot of bad ones to find them

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Anonymous #7 5w

That applies to dating in general as a male or female. So basically you’re complaining you’ll have to actually put some basic effort in meeting people if you want to get a good bf

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Anonymous #5 5w

Effort = going out on dates with people who seemed normal on the app but might be violent. Effort = risk. Dating app bad.

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Anonymous #7 5w

You have a higher chance of getting in a car accident on the way to the date than facing violence in a public venue in broad daylight from a hinge date

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Anonymous #5 5w

They could also stalk, coerce, deceive and abuse, or use various other measures to get what they want

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Anonymous #5 5w

Still wanna tell me what tutorial mode means

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Anonymous #7 5w

That applies to all dating so I guess you’ll never date then

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Anonymous #4 5w

If you need an explanation of that term you’ll probably never understand

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Anonymous #5 5w

I have a bf

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Anonymous #5 5w

Met irl

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Anonymous #7 5w

Alright then so evidently you’ve taken such risks before not sure why you speak in such a manner then

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Anonymous #7 5w

The risk was just as present irl lmao

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Anonymous #5 5w

The only risk I faced finding my bf was the risk everyone else faced showing up to college classes every day. If I had signed up for a dating app on top of that, my total risk would have been risk = everyday risk + dating app risk.

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Anonymous #5 5w

By finding someone in person, my risk was risk = everyday risk < everyday risk + dating app risk.

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Anonymous #7 5w

The risk was present none the less he could’ve as you said stalked, deceived, abused, coerced, ect. Matter of fact he still can at any moment

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Anonymous #7 5w

So yeah some risk and effort is required to get a bf expecting it to not be present at all is ridiculous most gen z relationships are coming from apps anyways nowadays

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Anonymous #5 5w

Well like I said, simple math says that if I increase my exposure to people who are clearly seeking dates, I increase my overall chance of being victimized. BUT I got curious about dating app stats and looked up studies about it.

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Anonymous #5 5w

I found this one study that found that dating apps increased narcissistic and Machiavellian traits among users over time.

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Anonymous #5 5w

So while the real world has some risk of meeting nasty people, there’s some actual evidence dating apps are worse.

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