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choppedguy

guys, so i’m talking to this very nice woman- she’s actually very intelligent and interesting. but i wanna see her. i don’t wanna have sex- but i wanna hang out- like a date. where are some good places i can take her for a first date? we’re both 20 btw
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Anonymous 1w

If it’s someone you don’t know well I’d avoid something like a movie for a date, you want to be able to actually talk and get to know each other. Take her out to lunch or dinner at a nice restaurant, you can never go wrong with that

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Anonymous 1w

Personally I’m a big fan of local events, music, markets, art exhibitions, whatever you have locally where you can go around and see different things, it’s a great way to learn likes and dislikes while still having things to look around at if it gets quiet for a moment so it’s not as awkward!

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Anonymous 1w

Always take them swimming on a first date! It’ll wash some of that makeup off so you can see what you’re really dealing with

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