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Do you ask to have sex with your partners or no?
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Anonymous 4w

I would say after a while it’s relatively easy to tell when you’re both in the mood with the HUGE caveat that if your partner says they don’t feel like it you don’t do anything

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Anonymous 4w

Sometimes yes sometimes no

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Anonymous 4w

it just happens

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Anonymous 4w

Yes ofc if it’s early in the relationship. But once we’ve known eachother for a while implied consent is good

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Anonymous 4w

Well if you start initiating (kissing, touching) hopefully they have the confidence in you to let you know if they also want to engage or not. Of course there are also times when one of the two just straight up asks if the situation calls for it (usually if you’re doing something that doesn’t allow for one to initiate kissing or touching but you don’t want to waste time so you’re like “hey you wanna?” But more than like consent that’s like asking if you’re down to do something which just happens

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Like the mood just permits it to happen basically?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, like you just get more comfortable enough to know eachother better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

To be sex in this case lol) I feel like if you’re in a relationship consent is implied in that that person agrees to have sexual relations with you by being in a relationship with you (assuming there isn’t an asexual party in the relationship) BUT it’s still really important to keep in mind that doesn’t mean they’ll ALWAYS want to have sex when you want to and that each person’s mood and drive is still something that needs to be taken into account and respected. But I feel like in general being

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

In a relationship implies general consent and interest still subject to explicit consent each time.

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