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Ask Women 12w
Anyone else get a little annoyed by being referred to as a girlie? Ik the intention is community and friendliness and I genuinely do appreciate that, I just don’t love girlie. Can’t figure out if it’s bc I’m a full woman or a gender thing lowkey
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Anonymous 12w

It’s hard to feel like a girlie when I wasn’t girl enough to fit in with other girls and feminine culture growing up, hearing that makes me uncomfortable

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Anonymous 12w

No it kind of annoys me too. This might not be everyone’s experience but it can often come with a backhanded compliment

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Anonymous 11w

If I'm calling someone girlie and they don't like it, they'd better tell me or I'll cry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Good point because that’s describes my experience to a t. Much to consider

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I relate to this sooooooo much and I’m also a lesbian and felt so rejected by feminine culture and women in school even tho I look feminine most of the time but act another way…. It’s traumatic being a woman and girl in this sexist world

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