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Anyone else get a little annoyed by being referred to as a girlie? Ik the intention is community and friendliness and I genuinely do appreciate that, I just don’t love girlie. Can’t figure out if it’s bc I’m a full woman or a gender thing lowkey
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Anonymous 1d

It’s hard to feel like a girlie when I wasn’t girl enough to fit in with other girls and feminine culture growing up, hearing that makes me uncomfortable

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Anonymous 1d

No it kind of annoys me too. This might not be everyone’s experience but it can often come with a backhanded compliment

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Anonymous 1d

totally get it idk why either

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Good point because that’s describes my experience to a t. Much to consider

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