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My boyfriend asks if I need the bathroom when we’re leaving restaurants or going to the movies etc and I think it’s weird. Does anyone else experience this and know why they do it?
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Anonymous 1d

How does he ask because I’m kinda interested in the phrasing

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Anonymous 1d

to me it is just considerate of partners, especially boyfriends? but i could def be misunderstanding or missing something

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t think it’s too weird. I have some family members who will ask that if we stop somewhere on a long trip or something. I think it’s like a courtesy thing asking if your ready to hit the road kinda thing

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Anonymous 1d

Its probably how he grew up i see a lot of parents do this

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Anonymous 20h

idk just sounds like he’s trying to be considerate, tho i’d also like to know the phrasing. here’s my theory: if he spends a lot of time around like his mother and doesn’t have sisters, moms tend to need the bathroom more often bc pregnancy moves ur organs around. so maybe he’s used to the thought process of “oh im out with my mom, she’ll probably need the bathroom more often than i do, ill make sure she has a chance to”, and then he assumed it was bc she’s a woman and not bc she gave birth

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Anonymous 7h

I’m used to everyone around me needing to piss at the most inconvenient times so lowkey I do the same thing

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Anonymous 7h

His parents probably did it to him but it is weird to do to another adult lol

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