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Side thought but why do men always go for the "ripped" body type when it comes to what women find attractive when tim and time again women have expressed thats not the case? Ripped is a male gaze thing 😭 women aren't begging to sleep with gym bros
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Anonymous 5w

As a man who is somewhat ripped, you have some misunderstandings about fitness. 1) what women refer to as attractive dad bods, are actually still very fit people relative to the average American. The average “sexy” dad bod is still a guy who works out a lot. 2) Men who choose to be ripped don’t do it for you, the same way women don’t dress up for men. They do it to push their body to the limits, see how far they can take their physical strength while minimizing bf%, and achieve something great

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Anonymous 5w

That is exactly who u sleep with, don’t play

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

And 3) while ripped men may not have the most attractive body types, studies show time and time again that both men and women with low bf% have the most conventionally attractive face cards. It’s likely that the guys you find hot walking down the street are “ripped” in this regard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Please stop minimizing fitness to just about looks because it’s much more than that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Ok i never insinuated that men who have that body do it for women? I was more so replying to a comment OP made

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

You basically wrote an essay inflating my statement to a different degree.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I was basically saying that women are just out here only seeking out ripped men and only giving them attention because women aren't monoliths, we like different things and being ripped is not the standard

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