
Depends on the situation, if you are waiting til marriage you’d want to meet someone who has the same ideals. A high body count for either gender is a red flag in any capacity, there are statistics about lengths of relationships/marriage with high body count partners. 43% of marriages end in divorce with either partner having 10+ bodies. How can you become monogamous with someone when you’ve been with that many different people
A couple of things. While I know this is an “asking women” field. As a guy I care about body count but less from a judgey attitude standpoint and more of a concern standpoint because of my own sexual experiences. Most people I’ve met whether men or women have had both good and very bad experiences. Whether something as like awkward moments or something far more traumatic like sexual assault, rape and getting cheated on. These things take a lot of time to heal from and can impact future
STDs like herpes become almost guaranteed at some point and also risk of divorce and partner satisfaction are extremely high and low respectively. Probably because they can’t stop comparing to their extensive past so no one exists who can measure up to the best parts of 20 different dudes combined
Future relationships. It’s more about now your full story than your now deemed less valuable. It’s just a recognition of “hey you’ve gone through some hard stuff, I want to know if you have any triggers, struggles with intimacy and etc” more so than anything. This way it gives clear communication in a relationship.