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When yall are genuinely depressed and borderline suicidal do people notice? And do they care? Im a guy and all anyone ever does is says shit like “its amazing how all you ever do is find the negative in stuff” if i wasn’t dehydrated i wouldve cried…
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Anonymous 3w

They notice but if they express concern I just make jokes about it cause it makes me uncomfortable. The people around you sound shitty I’m sorry. I’m trying meds and therapy and it’s gotten a bit better, not perfect but I’m not daydreaming about CO2 poisoning anymore and I am actually kinda happy most days. If you can, try therapy and meds (if they aren’t working switch meds or up the dose I had to do that a few times). Ik you are in hell rn but there is another way forward.

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Anonymous 3w

Oh brother that’s problem one. If you’re depressed the LAST thing you should be doing is advertising it.

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Anonymous 3w

I have a few friends I genuinely trust and can count on, but I’ve never been suicidal in front of someone. Only happened for a short time, and I just wrote my way through it. But if I had needed a friend, I’m 100% certain that one of my close friends would be there for me. Nobody really notices my feelings most of the time because I hide them from my face

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

(Also there’s tDCS, TMS, etc. if stuff isn’t working ) Don’t give up, happiness is worth it and your life matters. It got easier when I stopped trying to fight it and realized it was parts of me dancing with themselves, the harder I pushed the harder it pushed back. Find balance. This may all sound cliche or cheesy but it’s true. Every step you take to get better is important not only for you and those in your life, but for the rest of us.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I don’t advertise it, its just blatantly obvious…

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