Ask Women on Sidechat | I have a question I got SA’d my virginity was taken is it normal for me to start wanting sex after like some days I have flash backs to the SA and then later that day I want to have sex and I feel overly sexual is that normal? But then I also feel gross.

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Ask Women 14h

I have a question I got SA’d my virginity was taken is it normal for me to start wanting sex after like some days I have flash backs to the SA and then later that day I want to have sex and I feel overly sexual is that normal? But then I also feel gross.

Anonymous 14h

Its not normal but its common, you’re not alone

Anonymous 14h

don’t count SA as taken virginity, and everyone’s reactions to assault r different no normal response

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Anonymous 12h

very common trauma response to be overly sexual afterwards, also SA is not taking ur virginity

Anonymous

#1 14h

No im saying i was a virgin and i was SA’D

Anonymous

OP 13h

Like 🍇? I’ve been downplaying the time I was SA’d so long until someone told me that it was considered 🍇 today. I have no one else to talk to about this so just venting at this point but 5 years I’ve always felt like I’ve had to downplay what happened to me and now I feel so validated! I was a virgin too at the time and felt the same way, I had a sex drive some days but ultimately I didn’t end up losing my virginity fr until a year later 9 months into the relationship I’m still in w my bf

Anonymous

#3 12h

Yeah I was downplaying it for a while too until someone told me