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How come when I vent about being lonely, women always say the same thing: “women don’t owe you a date, we don’t exist to please you” I’m sorry but… no shit? Can’t a guy vent about wanting love without being accused of not seeing women as people? 🤦‍♂️
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Anonymous 4w

It just depends on how you’re framing it, honestly. It’s much more obvious when people are frustrated about rejection rather than… not going on a date. Besides, this isn’t really a gendered issue. Young people are less interested in dating. Getting rejected is generally nothing truly personal, however it’s very clear and a turn-off when people act as if there is some ulterior motive or socio/psychological reason

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Anonymous 4w

You can vent but lowkey why are you doing it to us. Women are fed up bc guys are constantly making it our problem. It’s different if it’s a close female friend ig, lowkey in that situation she should be a bit more sympathetic. But most of the time when men complain about being lonely they end up blaming women and if just gets exhausting to hear about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

There’s just a huge difference between “man, I shot my shot and it didn’t work, I’ll keep looking for someone who is interested in a relationship with me, because that’s what I want” rather than turning to “all women are the same, nobody wants a real relationship, men don’t want to ask women out because they always say no” stuff. Not saying you did, but wanting a relationship is different than pursuing one optimistically

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Anonymous 4w

this is the bullshit we’re talking about pls stfu

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Anonymous 4w

Men like this are exactly why our sympathy runs low btw op

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Anonymous 4w

For someone whose name is historybuff I’d think you would try to look up some statistics to back up your bullshit. Again, not a specifically gendered issue and there are multiple factors behind this trend. Young people are dating less.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I’m not specifically. Doesn’t stop them

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