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How much will losing weight help me to attract women? I’m currently 5’9, 220 lbs and I wanna lose 70-80 lbs and then hopefully build muscle afterwards
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Anonymous 2w

You should cut weight only if *you* want to. Not because someone in the future wants you to. 220 isn’t even an inherent dealbreaker or anything either! Plenty of women will still be attracted I promise :)

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Anonymous 2w

If you want to lose weight for yourself that’s great, but as others said, doing so for others isn’t worth it. I’m not saying weight’s not a factor at all but there are many happily coupled fat men and many women who are attracted to and date them. Ik this sounds like bs but being confident in yourself will do more to attract women than any weight loss will

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Anonymous 2w

losing weight will only attract women who only see you for your looks, plus theres several of us girls out there who LOVE a bigger dude 🙂‍↕️ do it for yourself, not for someone else🫶🏻

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Anonymous 2w

I really can’t get a good idea of what you might look like based on just height and weight so idk

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Anonymous 2w

None lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

White, straight brown hair, blue/gray eyes. I’ll never be a model but I feel like I could be decent looking at least

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

The fact you’re white means there’s hope if you’re fine with fat girls 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Or poc

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Anonymous replying to -> aquacyclone 2w

I appreciate your reply and the kind words, but no one has ever liked me and I think my weight is part of that. And honestly I don’t have a problem doing it for someone else if it helps me find love

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