
-- its really hard for me to deal with it when it was all things i thought we couldve at least tried to work on, he didnt want to and i think thats okay, but i just cant shake that feeling of dread and missed opportunity I just really want to talk to someone who also got out of a very long term relationship so that maybe i can get some good advice. If anyone is willing to offer anything i really appreciate it, either in comments or DMs
Hey girly, im sorry youre going through that. I was in ur place once too, so i understand how ure feeling rn. I broke up w my ex after 2 years. I kinda feel like the same thing happened to us too. He was getting less attentive and I lost hope. So I just broke up over text for some reason. He understood it, but js liked my text. We still follow each other, but no contact. I still look back and think maybe things couldve been different and we wouldve been dating if i was a bit more patient. But at
At the end of the day. But then reality hits you and you look back at the moments and realize that was not going to happen. Youre just missing and thinking over and over of the IDEA of it working out. The idea of how you wanted him to be and how nice it wouldve been. That never happened so what im saying is you gotta understand that the pain u are suffering right now is temporary. It will be challenging, but it is never worth going back knowing it did not happen and he did not try to make it
happen. There will be days where all u can think of is him. And believe me when i tell u that were will be other mature people who want to look out for u and love u the same way u wanted him to love u. Keep yourself busy and show the love u wanted him to show u to u. And i hope you feel better girly. Text me anytime if u need someone to talk to. Love urself, genuinely. Theres no one that will love u more than u love u