
A lot of people, especially a lot of men these days, are stuck in this immature mindset of wanting to stick to one worldview that validates all their feelings and insecurities without thinking about the bigger picture. I’m a woman and I used to be like that too, unfortunately it’s kinda up to the individual to recognize these things about themselves and want to change for the better, and it’s much easier to just Not
Sorry that happened to you, the op of that post sounds like an idiot. As for 16 that seems to be a common thing on YikYak (I’m not on much socials so I can’t speak from experience but I wouldn’t be suprised if it’s elsewhere) for men to just assume whoever they’re speaking to is a woman, and all that entails. Hopefully your comment isn’t voided because you had such a clear point and I would hope it could open maybe a few eyes that aren’t sealed shut