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Ask Women 3w

Am I wrong for finding it annoying when people are lazy? (And I dont mean having rest days, everyone needs those.) Im talking about complaining about wanting to achieve a goal but doing nothing about, despite having the time + resources to

Anonymous 3w

Sometimes it’s not about the time but the mental state they’re in. I’m clinically depressed and am starting to go to the mental hospital, I keep saying I will start being more active or get out of the house at least but then I overthink, get hard on myself, and don’t do anything.

Anonymous 3w

If someones lazy and they dont complain this isnt abt them, its the people that talk and do nothing

Anonymous 3w

I feel like you are wrong in the sense that it has nothing to do with you so it shouldn’t bother you what they do or don’t do. You can have your opinion about it but it shouldn’t “annoy” you, that’s just weird. It’s also wrong that you’d automatically say it’s because they’re lazy because like #1 said they may have a desire but there’s something affecting their mentality that’s holding them back and they might not even realize it and it’s not them just “being lazy” as you are assuming. You

Anonymous

#2 3w

Should just mind your own business honestly.

Anonymous

#1 3w

This is a completely valid reason! This was more directed at people who dont suffer from any mental/physical disorders

Anonymous

#2 3w

Hi! I cant mind my own business when they make every conversation about it. I dont ask, they complain to me. Ive tried several approaches to try to help them reach their goals but they refuse to even attempt. I do NOT care what people do with their lives, Im talking about people close to me who make it my issue as well.

Anonymous

#2 3w

But I completely agree otherwise, what other people do is none of my concern.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Ah ok then yea being mad is completely justified.