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PART ONE- okay guys, i might sound like a real b*tch but i need advice. i feel like my boyfriend, 1 1/2 years, isn’t the one for me. im only 19 and i feel as tho i might’ve settled because of everything that happend during my highschool year now we have
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Anonymous 5d

dude you're 19. don't feel tied down, it's not the 50s

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Anonymous 5d

Lets be real 😊 you see better options than him here. We both know what you “should” do is be loyal to your man. But you can also do as you feel and treat life like a video game. FAFO

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Anonymous 5d

PART TWO- lived together, we have a dog together, and i was the one to take his virginity, which he holds over my head constantly. i’ve tried to talk to him about it but he just says we are highschool sweethearts and we can get through it. we’ve never been the “picture perfect” couple, fights all the time, only a couple times has it ever gotten physical. i love him a lot, i just don’t know what to do

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Anonymous 5d

Do him a favor and let him go

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Anonymous 5d

Why do you feel that way?

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Anonymous 3d

You might feel like this a minor problem right now but it’ll probably turn into long term mutual resentment if you stay with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

i think it has to do with me moving to college, but i just kinda feel like my standards should maybe be higher than that?? i just feel like he could do so much more, and i could too, but we might hold eachother back because of his constant need to be around/otp with me. i lost all my friends in highschool because i completely changed myself to be someone he liked and only hung out with him, then i moved in with him and never went out anywhere, now that im on my own in a way bigger city i just-

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

don’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I have never fought with my partner in the three years I’ve been with him. ESPECIALLY PHYSICALLY.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Idk what this is suggesting, but all cheaters are scum. If you don’t want to be with someone than just break up and don’t look back

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