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So i went on a date yesterday it went well i thought we had a good time he was a gentleman and was talkative and we vibed and i woke up blocked 🙂 fucking hate this dating shit what was the fucking point…
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Anonymous 10w

Thats so shitty of him, idky communication is so taboo in this gen

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Anonymous 10w

Im so sorry OP, just know that if he did that, you’re much better off without him.

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Anonymous 10w

OP, I’m sorry this happened to you. As a guy who does this pretty often, the reason is he probably found a red flag or an incompatibility while on the date with you. In the present generation it’s very tough for us to share any sort of perceived criticism with women without being seen as the bad guy, so usually blocking is the safer route to go. Better to cease contact than get her cop dad, violent possessive ex, or fake allegations come at you.

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Anonymous 10w

Men are aging backwards istg, they’ll throw a fit if they can’t fuck you after the first date and then think they can find better

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Anonymous 10w

That’s why I’m single and prefer sex when I want it. Fuck it girl

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Anonymous 10w

What did you do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Why are you assuming she’s the one who did something?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Bc people can't muster up enough energy to have empathy so they will find a way to place blame on you so they don't have to

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

When I was new to dating I actually tried the honesty and communication approach and trust me, it NEVER worked out. The women just ended up more hurt and/or angry.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Or maybe just be honest and tell a girl it won’t work out?? Why do you automatically have to go the route of being an absolute jerk and leaving her with no explanation? Grow the fuck up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

As I just said… saying that to women doesn’t actually work.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Just because a few woman reacted that way doesn’t give you the right to be an ass to every woman since then 😂😂 seriously what the fuck is wrong with men these days, do any of them have any decency?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I’m sorry but “decency” isn’t worth getting physically assaulted or allegations that could destroy my career.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I, a straight man, have rejected more women than you have. Why do you think you know better about the median outcome of what happens.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Telling a girl after a first date you don’t think it would work out is not gonna result in you being destroyed and if you genuinely think that way then you’re immature as fuck. No decent woman is going to call rape if a guy is honest and doesn’t wanna continue seeing her

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Usually it’s more a situation when I’ve known them as acquaintances and then we go on a date or two, so they are more (overly) invested, where the most terrible stuff happens in my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I, a now straight woman, have probably been with more girls than you and I have rejected numerous men who have assaulted me, threatened me, and made allegations. And as a woman, I think I know how women work

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Being honest and mature is what women want, it will upset a woman more if you leave with no warning and no explanation. Take it from an actual woman, no girl is going to want a guy who’s done that. A man who shows emotional maturity is a man worth more than one who doesn’t. Maybe someday you’ll learn that, or maybe someday you’ll meet a girl you really like and she does the exact same thing to you and you’ll realise how horrible it is to do to someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

And I will offer a prayer for you right now, whoever you are, because I truly hope someday you’d grow into a man who can be a good husband and maybe even a father who will raise sons to be gentlemen

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

That’s why I asked her Capt Save a Hoe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Dude it’s not that hard: “hey, I had fun, but I don’t think we would be a good fit”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Most people just move on because its no big deal it was a just a date that didn’t work out in the most efficient manor.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

They usually can

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Omg pls shut the fuck up

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

Did you let him crack?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It is even if they do they be lying through their teeth 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I’m quite the opposite 😭I’m so understanding wish I could have said before hand to not block me and just say what was wrong with the date and we could have gone our separate ways getting blocked after getting sweet talked hurts

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

I had done nothing the date went really well as i thought we were joking around we held hands we clicked and after the date i kissed him and he was like we can plan our next date and then i get blocked and before this date happened he was expressing to me how excited he was to see me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

He was fronting then or something else happened. Some guys are shitty. It’s best to move on. There are tons of great people are there, don’t waste a second thought on some dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

lol I’m a dude and that’s the truth, but to be honest having sex means less as ya get older. Half the time I don’t want bothered lol

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