Anonymous #1 4w

There’s a literal study proving it why do yall have to deny everything that doesn’t suit your agenda? 😭

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Anonymous #3 4w

The “nice guys always finish last” is also an agenda, a misogynistic one that encourages more men to mistreat women under the belief that all women are the same

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Anonymous #1 4w

Sure but instead of admitting women aren’t perfect (which is fine) you jump to “ooh incels”

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Anonymous #3 4w

Cause the incels on here never fucking shut up

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Anonymous #3 4w

I think it’s a positive feedback loop. I mean there is a study and probably more about it and anecdotal evidence would also support this, but men complaining about it especially those who feel like they failed romantically can start delving into misogyny as a scapegoat which hurts the overall image. In short I agree it’s true but it’s also gone sour for some which only creates further divide and feeds this loop

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Anonymous #2 4w

So what? Call them out then, but don’t try to deny factual criticism

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Anonymous OP 4w

Exactly

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Anonymous #3 4w

I’m not trying to deny it. I just don’t get why men can’t shut the fuck up and let women date whomever they want. And they need to stop making it sound like iys all damn women kind not just a trend among some of us

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Anonymous #3 4w

I mean that’s what these posts are, “nice guys” making multiple posts for the sole purpose of making us “admit” something that should really just be common sense

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Anonymous OP 4w

Genuinely fair, thank you

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Anonymous #2 4w

I never said you couldn’t. But #1 tried denying it and saying it’s incel fairytales and that’s what I’m talking about

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Why do we have to acknowledge. Who cares. Boo hoo some stupid women go for bad boys. Not my problem nor yours

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Anonymous #5 4w

at least i remember that from when we were in like elementary school

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Anonymous #6 4w

Hot take but “college educated” is completely overrated. Any dumbass can get into a college and most college students roll with “C’s get degrees” mentality which in most majors equates to not shitting yourself during class

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Anonymous OP 4w

I also think you’re oversimplifying a bit. There’s definitely some guys that are only nice to try to get attention from women, but that’s a facet of a group you’re using to represent the group. There’s also the underlying cause which is frustration. My point is they could actually be a genuinely nice person, but are just frustrated. There’s just a lot of underlying causes that need to be explored rather than simply assigning a label

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Anonymous #2 4w

If most knew better then most wouldn’t have a bad boy story or bad tale

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Anonymous #7 4w

I don’t think most women do have a bad boy story. Plenty do but I wouldn’t say most at all

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Anonymous OP 4w

I think that you’re giving many too much credit. There have even been plenty of guys who says they only became friends with a girl to try to get with her and as soon as she says no? Fk you. A guy turns me down? Yk what I don’t do? Cuss at him, insult him. Etc. yet many women experience that or WORSE. Of course it’s not all but nice guys don’t need to call themselves nice. They just are.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Also college education isn’t a scam in the learning part. What makes it a scam is 1. Price 2. We are told it’s super easy to get a job with a degree, a high paying one, this was in fact a fking lie. Having more knowledge isn’t bad, but the system is. Also a lot of majors now require Bs in core classes (like psychology, nursing, etc.) or else you have to retake

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