i personally think waiting until marriage to have sex is a bad idea. learning what you like and dislike sexually is important. locking in with someone forever without knowing what they're like sexually isn't smart imo. partners with mismatched sex drives lead to dead bedrooms, frustration, miserable marriages, and often divorce.

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It’s not a bad thing, it’s just a thing. Your choice regardless.

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Only if the woman is a virgin then many are willing to wait

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Not a woman, but if I was still a virgin I would consider waiting until marriage. Now that I’m not I don’t care about whether or not my future gf is or what her body count is.

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Yes. I wanna wait till marriage and yet..also don’t in a way. Seeing my friends have fun and me just.. you know. Not in a way is kinda depressing.

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Ugh this is what I hated about dating when I was Christian. Christian men will follow every rule except that one. Sexual double standards suck, and the math doesn’t math. They expect you to save yourself for them and then somehow trust them off of vibes alone. So glad I left that toxic heck hole. Hope I’m bi because I’m done with this.

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