Ask Women on Sidechat | hi girls! i’m having trouble with coming to terms with my sexuality. i’ve always thought of myself as bi but in the past year i’ve been thinking about how anytime im with a guy, no matter how perfect he is, it just feels off somehow. any advice?

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Ask Women 1d

hi girls! i’m having trouble with coming to terms with my sexuality. i’ve always thought of myself as bi but in the past year i’ve been thinking about how anytime im with a guy, no matter how perfect he is, it just feels off somehow. any advice?

Anonymous 17h

used to live this horrible back and forth for years until i realized IT DOESNT MATTER AND LABELS R STUPID!! u dont need to label urself as anything, just listen to what ur body and mind r attracted to. Explore w more women if thats something that interests you at all

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Anonymous 1d

how do you feel when you think about like a hypothetical man? like if you could create your perfect version of a man would that be good enough or do you think there will always be something missing ?

Anonymous 11h

If you’re into women, investigate that. If you’re not into anyone, think about it and feel around. As someone else said, labels are stupid. Sexuality can drift and morph over time too. Don’t beat yourself up <3

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hellraiser 1d

i’d think of someone kind and interested and sorta matches my freak but even when i think i’ve found that there’s just always something wrong and i drift away. like i’ve found someone who’s completely perfect for me on paper but when i think of actually being with him it’s wrong to me, i’ve never felt like that when im with a woman

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Anonymous

OP 1d

well def sounds like you lean towards women, i wouldn’t stress too much about a label tbh. unless its important to you.

Anonymous

hellraiser 1d

i’m less worried about the label and more about hurting someone interested in me (and my family) i need to just ball up and have the conversation