Anonymous #3 21w

Take even your phrasing, OP. Even as a tomboy, I cringe when I hear boys around me talk about “getting bitches,” because even if they don’t remember because of my baseball cap and baggy hoodie, I’m actually one of those “bitches.” I honestly don’t think the women of previous generations are doing “better” for that

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Anonymous #3 21w

Also the employment rate is definitelyyyy not tied to this. Honestly, you could point to several other factors for those depression and dating rates too (COVID, social media, AI chatbots, growing political divisiveness, world events, etc)

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Anonymous #3 21w

I suspect the rates of blaming everything but oneself for one's shortcomings are also far greater in Gen Z 😂

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Anonymous OP 21w

? I just tried to answer your question?

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Anonymous #4 21w

As for the getting bitches stuff that’s clearly misogynistic so it’s getting pushed back on by feminists more now

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Anonymous #4 21w

That is simply not true. The studies show Gen Z is having far less sex than all of the other generations before them.

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Anonymous #4 21w

More data

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Anonymous #4 21w

And more on whether the participants were having hookups

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Anonymous OP 21w

We may be having less sex but that doesn’t mean hookups are not more prominent among the people having sex, and it’s definitely something we hear a lot about bc people post and talk about it sm. But that’s also only one component of your post, the porn rates have risen, from an earlier age too, as far as I know

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Anonymous #4 21w

What the fuck does "hookups being more prominent among the people having sex" mean, and what does that have to do with literally anything we are talking about 😂

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Anonymous OP 21w

It means those of us who aren’t having them have to hear about them more and it turns people off to the idea

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Anonymous OP 21w

Like I see the way my friends who are hooking up are living and, hell nah

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Anonymous #4 21w

You're claiming that Gen Z is having less sex because they're hearing more about others' hookups and are being turned off to the idea by it? Nah that might just be a you problem. Maybe go to the gym and get the T checked LMAO

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Anonymous OP 21w

No I don’t think that’s the reason we are having less sex but your question was why do we have more disdain for it and I think that’s partially why

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Anonymous OP 21w

I do work out and uh. I hope my T levels arnt particularly high given I’m a girl

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Anonymous #4 21w

It just sounds deeply inane to me that you are pointing to this uniquely personal experience of hearing other people brag about their hookups and extrapolating it to be one of the primary causes of Gen Z being sexless. I mean, I guess if you are sexless or an incel, it can be off-putting if it triggers your insecurities. But groups have conversations about sex which lead to increased enthusiasm about the act. Ever watch Sex and the City?

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Anonymous OP 21w

Idk man sorry. You asked us a question and i answered with some of my personal experience. I don’t have the statistics on why people in general are more disdainful but I know I’ve heard people speak like me. Also again The question you asked wasn’t “why are people more sexless” it’s why are people more disdainful

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Anonymous OP 21w

Also groups having conversations about the act isn’t gonna get more people excited when what we’re hearing are horror stories

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Anonymous #4 21w

What are the horror stories?

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Anonymous OP 21w

Toxic men, bad sex, awkward endings, situatuonships the fuck with people’s heads, etc etc.

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I buy that COVID, social media, gender war propaganda, and fake relationship advice TikToks have rotted Gen Z's brains into avoiding sex and relationships. I don't buy the rest - all of those, like hOrRiBLe mEN, have existed since the beginning of time, and humans have always fucked like rabbits outside of marriage until the Prude Generation came along.

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Anonymous OP 21w

Well idk man you asked us, we answered. Sorry it’s not the answer you want ig. Cry me a river. Porn is a blight on society anyway, and while hookups are fine for the people that wanna do them, a lot of us don’t and you just have to cope

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I don't think that's valid. A sexless population is bad for society, point blank. Gen Z is fucking fried by all metrics compared to the generations before it. That you are scared to go outside and scared off from engaging with other humans, falling in love, having one-night stands because of social media brainrot is not a badge of honor.

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Anonymous OP 21w

Well we can have sex without porn and endless hookups

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Anonymous OP 21w

I agree the other stuff is a problem but again that wasn’t what the post was about

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Anonymous #4 21w

Sure you can, but the data shows sex is not happening at all. The generation is a bunch of prudes.

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Anonymous OP 21w

Oh well. Rough.

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Avoiding experiences because you are brainrotted by propaganda, unable to heal your traumas, and scared is upsetting because you are letting your fear own you and take control of your life. On a mass scale, its acceptance leads to what we see today - a generation devoid of sex, employment, social skills, attention span, and ambition. An entire generation like this is bad for society, because prudes are going to run politics soon.

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The ultra right-wing didn't even need to try because women are slutshaming each other for them!

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Anonymous #5 21w

Me too!

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Anonymous OP 21w

Idk about you but I’m employed I just don’t have sex

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Anonymous OP 21w

Also why lump porn in with sexlessness, if anything the ampunt of porn we have around plays a role in why sex numbers are dropping

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Anonymous OP 21w

I’m not avoiding hookups bc I’m brainwashed. I’m avoiding it bc I know myself well enough to know I would get nothing out of casual sex. That’s similar for many, not everyone can be intimate with practical strangers. To each their own

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Are their bits on yikyak?

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Anonymous #4 21w

Bots*

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Anonymous #4 21w

Might not even be a real bot but it’s essentially like talking to one

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Yeah. Like I have been in a long term relationship since highschool so I am not exactly sex negative. And I am against the general swing of our society towards conservatism. But there are a lot of downsides to hookups and I don’t think it’s bad for society to call it out (as long as we aren’t shaming people) and I’ve always thought porn is toxic and bad and idk why it’s part of this conversation

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No Fr like it’s not a surprise people avoid hookups when the government is literally making it riskier for them

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The thing is OP didn’t ask why people were having less sex, they asked why we were more sex negative

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Anonymous #4 21w

Lowkey OP’s points sounds similar to the pro-natalism alt-right movement that’s trying to manipulate or outright force women into having babies to raise the birth rate because supposedly that’s the cause of a bunch of society’s problems

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Anonymous #3 21w

No fr

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Agreed

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Anonymous OP 21w

Hey unc how old are you?

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i always use condoms. condoms are not 100% effective and neither is birth control. Not to mention, going on birth control could also kill me, and because of my health, i can NOT get an IUD. My only choice is condoms.

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Bro doesn’t know brith control can fail

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also, hysterectomies are not usually covered by insurance unless they are medically necessary, like they are actively dying with it and need it removed.

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Anonymous OP 21w

Good one night stand culture is toxic especially when alcohol or drugs are involved

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YES!! Vasectomies are reversible in most situations, yet a hysterectomy is PERMANENT!

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I use condoms every time i have sex. I can not take birth control because of a fatal heart condition, which is the same reason i can not get pregnant. I have tried to get a hysterectomy, but am repeatedly told no because i have never been pregnant. same with getting my tubes tied.

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i didn’t mean to imply that, i meant to imply that condoms are not 100% effective and neither if birth control

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Not everyone finds hysterectomies to be an option. 8 said birth control, not birth could kill them. Also hysterectomies can come with their own bad consequences I for one, like 8 can only do condoms. But I’m unwilling to get a hysterectomy because I badly want children someday, just not now, so my answer is simply to abstain from sex if at any time I’m in a position where I can’t get an abortion, and there’s no shame in that

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Anonymous #4 21w

while i would choose abstinence, that would mean being abstinent forever because i never plan to have kids, because going through birth can kill me.

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Anonymous #8 21w

Fair enough my b I didn’t see that part.

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Anonymous #4 21w

no you’re good haha

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woahhhh no need to be rude, they probably did not see that part!

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I know it’s not about me, but given that I’m in a similar position to 8 I take annoyance at you shaming them for literally, not having sex?

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It wasn’t about that. It’s the fact you replied to someone saying they have to choose abstinence with “ew girl not a flex” and then offering solutions she did not ask for that you have no grounds to know are feasable

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Explain the “ew that is not a flex” comment then

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Anonymous #5 21w

Same!

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