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I over the past year I lost a massive amount of weight (310 to 235 @ 6'4) and am now reentering the dating pool. How might stretch marks and slightly loose skin around the stomach affect my attractiveness if I am othewise in good condition with muscles?
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Anonymous 3d

Just be honest put it in your bio that you lost so much weight and they'll be able to figure that out themselves if they have a brain cell.

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Anonymous 3d

If they have the opportunity to even see you shirtless it’s already sex at the least

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Anonymous 2d

Honestly, it wouldn’t bother me, as I’m kind of in the same boat, but you’ll probably find greater acceptance and understanding with others in the gym/fitness community if that’s concerning you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

I still don't use dating apps, I just decided to start seeking women actively, though I am still keeping it to social circles i am already a part of.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

This is a form of self sabotage

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

not really looking for sex but good to know ig

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I mean just think about it. When tf are they going to see. This is why personally I don’t understand why people act like having abs is some bonus in dating. They won’t even know until the deal is sealed regardless

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