
no and i think this is an insecure outlook on relationships. i’m bi so a lot of the typical straight ppl stuff doesn’t really apply for me but like if my partner is in the mood and im not there, sometimes our imaginations need a little help🤷♀️ also like porn and erotica and the like can help ppl discover new things to try in the bedroom and new things they’re interested in. if they’re like regularly chatting in a flirty way with a sex worker that’s not okay, but apart from that idgaf