Depends. Some porn you interact with the stars and that is definitely emotional cheating to me

14

no and i think this is an insecure outlook on relationships. i’m bi so a lot of the typical straight ppl stuff doesn’t really apply for me but like if my partner is in the mood and im not there, sometimes our imaginations need a little help🤷‍♀️ also like porn and erotica and the like can help ppl discover new things to try in the bedroom and new things they’re interested in. if they’re like regularly chatting in a flirty way with a sex worker that’s not okay, but apart from that idgaf

12

i don’t think it’s cheating but i still don’t think it’s healthy for you or your relationship

6

No

5

No but it does depend on the situation. If you prefer the porn over your significant other then that’s a bit strange and maybe something to bring up with them, if you just have a higher libido and need that to help then go ahead.

5

I think that’s something you gotta work out ahead of time but for me, no

4

Not cheating but VERY disrespectful if it’s been a conversation in the relationship

4

No it’s not a problem. I have a higher libido than my boyfriend and he doesn’t have the energy to do it after work, so I’ll just do it myself and it takes so much longer to get done without porn. My mind always darts around thinking about random things without it. He doesn’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our sex life

1