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how do you guys find people that share your values? boyfriends? what am i doing wrong?
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Anonymous 2w

Idk man I’ve honestly just gotten lucky. I’m an introvert so I meet people through people and we’re always kind similar

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Anonymous 2w

the trick is to date (reasonably) older

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Anonymous 2w

I got lucky and found a guy who shared my values!

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Anonymous 2w

Dating apps worked for me it really is all about luck took me a while to find him so patience is key

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I firmly disagree on this personally but tbf idk what your values are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

fair! personally i'm monogamous, i date to marry, i'm career-oriented, and i have the lifestyle of someone in their late 20s. many men my age (23) do not fit this profile well. in general i've meshed better with people a few years older

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Makes sense, I’ve heard a lot of girls say that. I have somewhat similar values but I’ve gotten lucky in that my male friends all lead similar lifestyles and hold similar values to me

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