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Ask Women 13h
Hey I really need some advice. So I have been fwb with this guy for about 6 months and we both are seeing other people but he recently told me that he is poly and he has a gf who is also poly. But he never told me this until now. I feel weird….
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Anonymous 13h

I mean… he technically didn’t lie to you ig? Ofc depends how long he’s been dating that girl and also if he specifically told you he was single within that time frame. Overall if you’re uncomfy that’s all you need to cut it off 🤷🏻‍♀️. Also fucking him doesn’t mean you’re all the sudden part of the poly too if that’s what you’re worried about. Some poly couples are poly + open which it sounds like the case for him.

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Anonymous 13h

That’s weird af because you aren’t poly. You were kind of involved in a relationship without meaning to be

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Anonymous 13h

Like I feel like I’m the other woman but technically I’m not also I was beginning to enjoy his company and I liked spending time and ig hooking up but I was beginning to feel some kind of connection but he revealed that and stated that he was emotionally fulfilled by her but sexually fulfilled by me and whoever else he was seeing …I’m feeling uncomfortable and I kinda want to have a conversation with him but idk…I’m not sure I can leave but I don’t know if I want this

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Anonymous 12h

This is too complicated for me so I’m just gonna scroll…okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Ik but he didn’t tell me he had a gf!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

He lied and made it sound like he was casual and never said he was poly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Yeah that’s weird. Lying is never ok. I’d probably just end it then tbh. Not worth feeling complicated over a fwb

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Ik im really angry and idk who to talk to which is why im on this app which is never a good thing but like i feel like im too emotionally connected to leave immediately but also idk ik i have to respect myself so im gonna go talk to him and then block him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Thank you for this. I’m on this app cause my friends have been slut shaming me cause of this situation when I never agreed to any of this 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

It would be weird if any person didn’t tell their hookup they’re in a relationship poly or not. Sorry you have to deal with this

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