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What are some ways men quietly take your confidence away? I feel like my bf has taken some of it, slowly and quietly. I can’t really explain it, but I don’t feel wanted anymore. I stopped doing my hair & makeup, even when I enjoyed it. That kind of thing
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Anonymous 14h

When their guy friends make low key diminishing comments towards you and he doesn’t absolutely nothing to stand up for you

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Anonymous 14h

I have big boobs and whenever I wear anything now I feel like I look like a slut. It could be a full coverage turtleneck and I still feel like I’m being sexualized

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Anonymous 10h

When he stops complimenting you daily

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Anonymous 31m

honestly dump him girl you deserve better

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Anonymous 18m

This happened to me too, it’s a terrible feeling. For me I think it was because I exhausted myself giving him all the attention he wanted, and I just didn’t have the energy to do things for ME anymore. I felt stuck with him, and like there was no room for experimenting with my identity/style anymore. For me breaking up is what allowed me to focus on myself again, (obvs do what’s best for you,) but don’t forget to focus on yourself too girlie!! 💕💕

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Anonymous 7h

cheat on him babe or at least let him and you know you could your reasons for wearing makeup and his attraction to you will skyrocket in unison

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Anonymous 14h

I mean do you ever give him head. That's a pretty easy way to get a man to want you. If you're not giving him head several times a week then I'm not sure what you're complaining about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

Mmm Wow okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

*does

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Damn I feel bad for whoever deigns to date your sorry ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

Holy what an incel comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

I can so relate to this we had a noticeable height difference and his friend said there was no way he was fucking that “lil ass dog” he just laughed

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